No room for hate
I was browsing through friendster and discovered the other side of some of my colleagues that I had a hard time figuring out . Usually we all like to jump to conclusions when we find that there is this one person whom you think , you'll never get along. He/she gives you this feeling that maybe you did something wrong or maybe you're out of their league. However , I try not to jump to conclusions whenever I find a 'difficult' person to get along with . He may appear to be cold , rude bla bla .. but most of the times I discovered , they're actually not bad . Just misunderstood . Maybe lacking some social skills and manners , that's all .
I try to be nice and humble to everyone , coz that's just the way I am . I got a motor-mouthed friend who can be too irritating at times , yet , other people see him in a different light . Everybody's got their own flavor you know , you can't expect everyone to be the same . So it's all good . So far I have no enemies and hopefully no one is holding a grudge or hate against me . Some people don't like it when you're too nice to them ... they prefer you to talk rough with them , makes them more jantan hehe .. another male ego complex that some of us guys have .
There's always two sides of a coin . Sometimes the good side don't always get noticed . I believe theres goodness in everyone , it's just the way we express it can be different . However , make no mistake that I do have limits over my kindness , if you're too grumpy or too moody to even have a light conversation , then I leave you alone , no problem :) . Different people have different ways to gain respect . Some gain it by force and intimidation , while some gain through honesty and an open mind .
You do it your way , I do it mine .
I was browsing through friendster and discovered the other side of some of my colleagues that I had a hard time figuring out . Usually we all like to jump to conclusions when we find that there is this one person whom you think , you'll never get along. He/she gives you this feeling that maybe you did something wrong or maybe you're out of their league. However , I try not to jump to conclusions whenever I find a 'difficult' person to get along with . He may appear to be cold , rude bla bla .. but most of the times I discovered , they're actually not bad . Just misunderstood . Maybe lacking some social skills and manners , that's all .
I try to be nice and humble to everyone , coz that's just the way I am . I got a motor-mouthed friend who can be too irritating at times , yet , other people see him in a different light . Everybody's got their own flavor you know , you can't expect everyone to be the same . So it's all good . So far I have no enemies and hopefully no one is holding a grudge or hate against me . Some people don't like it when you're too nice to them ... they prefer you to talk rough with them , makes them more jantan hehe .. another male ego complex that some of us guys have .
There's always two sides of a coin . Sometimes the good side don't always get noticed . I believe theres goodness in everyone , it's just the way we express it can be different . However , make no mistake that I do have limits over my kindness , if you're too grumpy or too moody to even have a light conversation , then I leave you alone , no problem :) . Different people have different ways to gain respect . Some gain it by force and intimidation , while some gain through honesty and an open mind .
You do it your way , I do it mine .
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